“A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success. “

- Bo Bennett

Rejection hurts.

But there came a time in my dating career (shortly after being given the pink slip from a guy I was absolutely crazy about) when it dawned on me that everybody is rejected at one time or another. I read an interview with a massively attractive rock star who talked about getting the heave-ho from a girl he loved, and I thought, “Wow, if even he gets rejected, then perhaps I’m not so bad off after all.”

Chances are some guy will tell you, “I think it’s time we see other people.” And it will probably hurt.

How do you deal with it? Well, you can sit around with a gallon of Haagen Dazs, wondering where you went wrong, why you can’t hold a man, why you’re fundamentally undesirable. Or you can tell yourself, “Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be.”

Which is the healthier choice? Hey, you are entitled to your feelings. Rejection stings, but this is the time to love yourself, not berate yourself for being a loser. Wallowing in misery and junk food will only make you, well, miserable. And miserable people are a turn-off.

When some guy informs you that you’re not the woman of his dreams, shake his hand and thank him for the memories. Think of it this way: He’s not for you. Maybe somebody upstairs is making sure he doesn’t move into your life for a reason.

But, if you absolutely must, sit around for a day (two at the very most) with the Haagen Dazs. Be miserable. Feel what you feel. Ask yourself what, if anything, you did to send him away.

Then stop.

Treat yourself like a treasure that has yet to be discovered. Carry yourself like a queen. Banish all thoughts of your former relationship. Smile easily at people wherever you go.

Move on. You’ll open yourself up to the lasting relationship you deserve, and to a man who brings you joy and laughter.

Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of “How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams.” Sign up for her free dating tips at http://www.marrysmart.com . Check out her blog at http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com .

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By observing a woman’s body language and reactions to you, you can determine if she is interested in you. Listed here are 12 positive signs that she may be interested in you:

1. Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
2. She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated (this could be mistaken from her taking drugs).
3. Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
4. While talking to you she is slowly stroking her cocktail glass up and down with her thumb and index finger.
5. If she is wearing a see-thru top, you can see that her nipples are getting hard while talking to you and looking at you.
6. She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
7. Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
8. She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
9. She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she’s thinking about you and her relating in some way.
10. She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and towards you.
11. She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
12. She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.

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This week I want to focus on the secrets to getting single women to like you.

When you first meet a woman you tend to focus on getting her interested in you and to like you. And a lot of guys make the mistake of trying too hard to impress women. Let me explain…

They spend most of their conversation focusing on their interests, material possessions, who they know, accomplishments, wealth, professional status, etc. This is the wrong approach, guys. The best way to impress single women is to be impressed by them and not spend all your time trying to impress them. Focus on how impressed you are with their:

• Interests
• The way they look and dress
• Knowledge and intelligence
• Sense of humor
• Cute smile
• Luscious and kissable lips
• Career
• Communication skills
• Goals and aspirations
• Love nature
• Nice apartment or house
• Cooking skills
• Nice furnishings and decor
• Etc.

I’m sure you get the picture now. Just direct all of your conversation away from yourself and focus on her and how impressed you are with her. This will really make a good impression on her and get her to like you.
The philosophy in this article works wonders when you want a woman to become interested in you. To get her interested in you, you must first become interested in her. Try this philosophy and you will be amazed at how much more successful you will be with women.

I also want to make some comments on the importance of establishing friendships with the women you date. Friendship and romance go very well together. There’s nothing like having a mate who is both your best friend and a lover. So, I highly recommend that you focus all your energies on becoming a close friend to a woman you are starting to date. Building a close and strong friendship will go a long way in creating a happy relationship with a very strong emotional bond between you.

And, remember that to be a friend, you must first be a friend. You must reach out and initiate a friendship.

In closing, I recommend that you adopt my strategy that has helped me seduce more women than I could handle: Become friends first, lover second. Get into her mind first before you get into her pants.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.

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