While dating in person usually starts with physical attraction, dating online or pen pal romance often starts with the echo of souls. When the appearance and thoughts are in harmony, we fall in love and have a happy ending. Your heart was pounding when you saw the smiles on her eyelashes. You could have a sleepless night after reading his emails. Whether you find your date online or in person, you could end up with a true love or a broken heart. Pen pal romance or online dating wouldn’t change how men and women love, it changes the way how they fall in love.

Many of us had their first pen pal when we’re a little kid. We wrote to a kid we had never and will never met. The letters opened a new world for us. Once in a while, we see a romantic story in newspapers or talk shows that pen pals write to each other for years without meeting and finally they fall in love.

The emergence of the Internet and the Web has transformed our planet into a digitalized global village. Tens of million of Internet users login to free adult chat rooms or free teen chat rooms to talk about anything under the sun - love, pets, music and games.

People turn to online dating sites to find love. They browse a few popular dating sites and find the profile they like. The online romance begins. Men and women, boys and girls tend to open their hearts freely in an online environment without worrying about the conflicts in reality. While composing an email in the middle of a night, you discovered your inner beauty which you never realized before.

The moment of the truth is the first time they meet in person. It could be either the end of the romance or the beginning of a new chapter in their relationship. Many relationship experts advise that you should meet your date in person before getting serious.

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I’ve mentioned this before but repetition is the mother of skill.
**You must avoid being predictable and boring.**
There is nothing worse that will prevent you from attracting beautiful women.
This is the number one reason she’ll come out with the dreaded, Lets-just-be-friends.

It’s only natural to want to spend time with the most interesting person you can. And being single, we luckily have that choice until we decide to take the relationship further. Male and female.
It’s natural to want to do everything right so that she’ll like youwhich she’ll likely will, but the attraction won’t be created. She knows she should like someone as good as you but her buttons aren’t being pushed to create sexual tension.

What she really wants is a little adventure and unpredictability. Now you don’t have to turn into James Bond Overnightor go parachuting on your first date. What I mean is not to be predictable and afraid to offend etc.
How to be unpredictable you ask? Good questionlet’s look at it.
First thing is to ‘always’ have a playful and cheerful attitude about you. This gives you a carefree charisma and fun to be around. This is exactly what you want women to think and say of you. e.g.
‘That Mick, he’s always having a good time and fun to be around.’
Don’t be afraid to take the mickey out of the lady good naturedly. This will create sexual tension and show you to be a man not afraid to have some fun.

I’ve always wanted to have beautiful women in my life and have done so. The times I’ve blown it has been when I reverted to the nice guy, eager to please, predictable habits. DON’T do it! Truth be known, most of us are nice guys.
Be unpredictable in what you say next in conversations; work on it until it becomes habit. Saying what ISN’T expected is one of the major tips to humor.

So you’ve got a women laughing, chances are she didn’t expect what just happened. You gave her that laugh and created a pleasant atmosphere.
That said, she is going to test your character. Lots of times, this will come in the form of demands and requests - both direct and indirect. You want to keep the pleasantness, but you don’t want to give up any authority or become predictable by instantly caving into her wishes. What to do?
DELAY. This is another key word. It applies to all sorts of aspects of dating, but for now we’re going to focus on spontaneity. Write it down somewhere in your diary / day planner.

Then write it down on every page, at the top, in bold letters. Go ahead and get creative. DELAY.
What do I mean by delay? Let’s say you’re out at night, and your lady mentions how much she loves Thai food. Don’t say anything, and DON’T go there that night.

But go two weeks later. It shows thoughtfulness - and that you were listening - without any of the wimpy characteristics usually associated with such displays. Plus, she knows not to expect where the night will lead, and not to try and guide it.

She talks about how she loves the beach. Great- take her there when she least expects it, like a Friday night after her work.
You get the idea. Pay attention to what she likes, but file the memory away. Don’t immediately try and fulfill her desires -But fulfill them on YOUR time, at unexpected moments.

This is one of the easiest skills to learn, but also one of the easiest to let slip when crunch time comes. A little whining and most men lose their heads and do whatever is asked of them.

Better is to make it clear that you don’t have time for whining -politely but firmly - and over time let the lady believe she will get what she wants, when YOU want to give it to her.

By the way, all of this, it counts about a thousand fold when it comes to sex. Few things are sexier than a man who doesn’t lose it at the sight of an exposed breast. If you can control yourself and DELAY satisfaction until you’re ready to give it over, the ANTICIPATION becomes more powerful than ACT ALONE usually is - making the act all the more powerful when it comes.
Yes, I’m talking about sex. :-]
DELAY.

This creates sexual tension and it is far easier to satisfy the lady quickly as she is highly aroused.
There you have it. I hope you have enjoyed this article.
Have fun and good luck

Author,
Mick Jones.
Mick has cut his teeth on the front line of the dating battlefields. After many wounds and scars, he now has consistent success! You can too, to sign up to his free newsletter, subscribe box is on our home page at; http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
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I’m sure you have seen singles magazines featuring personal ads of single women looking for romance. In the old days you responded to these ads by writing a letter. Now they have switched over to using a fee-based voice mail system for people to make contact. You respond to a woman’s ad by calling her voice mail and leaving a message.

When you find an ad that captures your attention you really need to plan in advance what your script is going to be when you leave a message. It’s very critical that you make a favorable impression when you leave a message. You will be judged on first impressions and what you say and how you say it can make or break you.

I have made a list of steps to take to make a good impression when calling her voice mail:

1. Read all the personal ads of single women in the magazine very carefully. Circle the ones that capture your attention.
2. Before you call her voice mail make some notes about what you are going to say. I highly recommend that you don’t read your script over the phone. It just won’t sound natural and will not sound sincere.
3. Be sure and speak very clearly, don’t stutter, and do not end each sentence with “ah” or “um.”
4. Do not speak with a boring and monotone voice. Make your voice sound lively and energetic.
5. Start off your message by telling her why her ad attracted your attention.
6. Then describe yourself honestly (be sure and don’t lie): your age, height and physical characteristics, your educational background, occupation, and personality traits.
7. Next, talk about the things that you like to do, your interests, hobbies, etc.
8. Now, express the type of woman you are looking for and don’t be afraid to mention that you are looking for a serious relationship.
9. Leave her your phone number and be sure to say it clearly and slowly so she won’t write down the wrong number.
10. End your message with, “I look forward to talking to you soon. I’d love to hear from you so we can get to know each other better.”

There you have it. This advice will help you plan in advance so you can make a good impression on her. Good luck and I hope you get lots of calls back from the single ladies who placed their personal ad.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.

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