Dating and Seduction How to Turn the Tables on the Women You’re Seeing
Let me ask you a question. It’s ok. You don’t
have to answer aloud.
Have you ever experienced any of the following
things with a woman?
-Trying to say the right things to “win her
over”?
-Attempting to prove that you were her “ideal
man”?
-A cautious feeling that any moment you might do
something that would turn her off?
-Wondering at all if she’s interested?
If you’re like 99.99% of all men in the dating
scene, you’ve probably answered yes.
Today I’m going to ouline a simple solution to
these problems that you will be able to start
using right away.
It’s called screening.
The most relevant definition to screening for our
purposes is:
Screen v. To examine (a job applicant, for
example) systematically in order to determine
suitability.
When you are with a woman, and it feels as though
she os “systematially examining you in order to
determine suitablility”, (Jeez, that’s a
mouthful) she’s screening you.
The solution you ask?
Simple.
Screen her first.
That’s right. Start screening her first, and it
will be very difficult for her to screen you
since she’ll be too busy trying to win YOU over.
HOW TO SCREEN:
Before you can examine her for suitability, you
first have to know what you are looking for.
Here’s an exercise. Get out a piece of paper and
write down the top 3 characteristics you look for
in a woman.
By the way, don’t write down things that you can
tell by looking at her. I know there’s a few guys
out there that are about to write “hot” as their
first characteristic.
Basically, since you can tell if she’s hot based
on your first glance, there’s no need to screen
for it.
I’ll do the exercise with you.
I wrote down:
-Independent
-Passionate
-Supportive
Now, what you’ll want to do is design a few
questions to indirectly determine if she has
those qualities or not.
This is easy.
For example, for “independent”, I might say
something like:
“You know, I really like women who lead exciting
lives of their own. Are you the type of person
who would rather create something completely
unique and her own or would you rather be part of
a team?”
It’s subtle, interesting, get’s right to the
point, and also let’s her know you have high
expectations.
Here’s another hint. Most women when they are
interested in a guy, will work like the devil to
pass their screens.
Don’t forget to reward her when she passes your
screens! This will make her feel good about
pleasing you and motivate her to do more of that
in the future!
Vincent DiCarlo is a world famous dating coach. His experience comes from years of training pickup artists in underground seduction lairs across the East Coast. He currently runs theApproach: The Science of Social Chemistry for the Modern Gentleman, with his partner Sebastian Drake, and teaches men of all ages and backgrounds to meet, attract and seduce the most beautiful women of the world.
Vincent’s full bio is here: Vincent DiCarlo: Social Dynamics
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