The first thing I want to do immediately is to give you a
CONCRETE, STEP BY STEP PLAN that you can immediately use to go out right now and start meeting more women.

Now, most guys have it all wrong when it comes to meeting women.. Let me clear up the confusion with 2 “Wisdom Nuggets”:

WISDOM NUGGET #1: Most normal guys UNDER-ESTIMATE
how many women they need to SEE and MEET in order
to develop their approach skills. And it doesn’t
matter if your goal is to find that one perfect
woman. In order to meet her when you finally
have a chance, you need good approach skills.

WISDOM NUGGET #2: If you’re not SEEING women (if
they don’t come into your field of vision), then
you’re not MEETING women. So this is a critical
first step. The more women you see, the more
opportunities you’ll have to develop and refine
your approach skills, get dates, etc.

The first step to seeing and meeting more women is
going where there are plenty of them. Duh.

So I’m going to give you 3 of my favorite places
to meet women:

1) SHOPPING MALLS

Ah, shopping malls. Such a terrible place to meet
women. I mean, look around, there’s only like 9
or 10 women for every 1 man walking around the
place. Lol …

Yes, there are tons of hot women working AND
shopping there.

Women flock to shopping malls like plastic
surgeons flock to Michael Jackson’s mansion.

2) RESTAURANTS

The idea with restaurants is that if you’re going
to eat out you might as well do it in a “Target
Rich Environment” (a place with lots of women).
You can turn just your average lunch into an
opportunity to walk home with several numbers of
interesting females.

And if you look around you will start to find many
restaurants in your area that consistently have
quite a few women eating (and working) there.

Larger restaurants obviously have more people and
so more women than smaller ones, so eat there.

And when you’re being seated by the hostess, see
if she can seat you in a place where you can have
a good view of the female traffic going in and
out, so when a woman that interests you enters
you’ll have easy access to do your approach.

So far nothing new, right? Pretty common sense.

Well here’s something I bet you don’t normally do:

Find a restaurant where there’s a lot of walking
traffic RIGHT OUTSIDE. Grab a table where you
can see all these people walking by. If there’s a
patio, that’s perfect.

When you see a hottie walk by, leave your food and
approach her.

This is quite a ROMANTIC move, because you can
HONESTLY say,

“Excuse me. Hi. I don’t know exactly how to say
this, but I was right in the middle of my lunch,
and I saw you walking and had to tell you you are
absolutely … beautiful.”

What this does is it puts you in a position where
1) you are being 100% HONEST when you say this
(so it’s not a “line”) and

2) it’s a NATURALLY ROMANTIC move to make.

(By the way, if you combine these first 2 places
to meet women what you get is: restaurants in
shopping malls where you can see the foot traffic
walk by. Excellent.)

3) CONCERTS, FAIRS, AND OTHER COMMUNITY EVENTS

These are all great places to meet women because
every woman there is out to have a good time.
They’re not in a rush to get to work or some
other place, so it’s not like you’re approach is
interrupting them from anything important.

This makes it just that much easier for them to
be open to having a random conversation with a
guy who has his act together.

(Oh, by the way, that guy is YOU in case you
haven’t figured it out yet).

***TIMING IS CRITICAL***

You visit your favorite restaurant on Tuesday at
lunch. But because it’s not crowded at that time,
there’s not even a single hottie. The same
restaurant on Friday evenings at 7 pm is full of
pretty women.

You go to the mall at 6 pm on a Tuesday and it’s a
desert. That same mall at 2 pm on a Saturday is an
oasis full of hot women.

So if you visit a Target Rich Environment but
there’s not many beautiful women there, ask
yourself if your timing is off.

Here’s a secret: Ask people who would know when
the most crowded time is. At a shopping mall,
restaurant, or grocery store you could ask any of
the employees. They would know. Just ask them,
“When is this place the busiest, anyways?”

Or to save even more time, you can always CALL
AHEAD to a new place you want to check out, and
ask someone over the phone when’s the busiest
time. You’ll be surprised how much info some
people will give you.

Now, some of you are thinking, “Man, I already
know this stuff.”

Maybe you do.

But are you DOING it?

Here’s an easy way to tell:

Have you approached 5 or more women in the last 7
days?

Seriously. Think about it.

Have you?

If not, then although you “know” this stuff,
you’re not DOING it.

That’s the trap that most “normal” guys fall into.
They sit back and criticize, but if you look at
what they’re DOING it’s clear they’re not taking
enough ACTION to ever get their skills to a level
where they’ll have the success with women they’re
looking for.

A success that some of you right now believe is
impossible …

Well, it’s not impossible … IF YOU DO THE WORK.

So, here’s your HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT:

Go out in the next 48 hours and visit at least 2
Target Rich Environments. Could be a mall. Could
be a restaurant. Could be another place you
thought of on your own where there’s likely to be
ladies present.

And all I want you to do is 1 thing:

1) COUNT how many pretty women you see in the next
48 hours. This includes those you see at the
Target Rich Environments AND any other women you
see anywhere, like on the street, in stores,
supermarkets, wherever.

So 48 hours from now, if you’re Bill from Illinois,
Gary from Australia, or whoever from wherever,
you’ll be able to say, “Kev, I was able to see 17
hot women in the last 48 hours” or whatever number
it may be.

It’ll be a little competition … WHO CAN SEE THE
MOST HOT WOMEN IN THE NEXT 48 HOURS …

So do yourself a favor and do your homework.
It’s basically checking out pretty women … how
much better can a homework assignment get???!!!

Your Dating Coach,

Kevin B.

Oh, and by the way, if you want the FULL SCOOP
of where you can meet pretty women (there are
over 15 more locations I left out of this email,
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In it you’ll also find specifically what to say to
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Let me ask you a question. It’s ok. You don’t
have to answer aloud.

Have you ever experienced any of the following
things with a woman?

-Trying to say the right things to “win her
over”?

-Attempting to prove that you were her “ideal
man”?

-A cautious feeling that any moment you might do
something that would turn her off?

-Wondering at all if she’s interested?

If you’re like 99.99% of all men in the dating
scene, you’ve probably answered yes.

Today I’m going to ouline a simple solution to
these problems that you will be able to start
using right away.

It’s called screening.

The most relevant definition to screening for our
purposes is:

Screen v. To examine (a job applicant, for
example) systematically in order to determine
suitability.

When you are with a woman, and it feels as though
she os “systematially examining you in order to
determine suitablility”, (Jeez, that’s a
mouthful) she’s screening you.

The solution you ask?

Simple.

Screen her first.

That’s right. Start screening her first, and it
will be very difficult for her to screen you
since she’ll be too busy trying to win YOU over.

HOW TO SCREEN:

Before you can examine her for suitability, you
first have to know what you are looking for.

Here’s an exercise. Get out a piece of paper and
write down the top 3 characteristics you look for
in a woman.

By the way, don’t write down things that you can
tell by looking at her. I know there’s a few guys
out there that are about to write “hot” as their
first characteristic.

Basically, since you can tell if she’s hot based
on your first glance, there’s no need to screen
for it.

I’ll do the exercise with you.

I wrote down:

-Independent

-Passionate

-Supportive

Now, what you’ll want to do is design a few
questions to indirectly determine if she has
those qualities or not.

This is easy.

For example, for “independent”, I might say
something like:

“You know, I really like women who lead exciting
lives of their own. Are you the type of person
who would rather create something completely
unique and her own or would you rather be part of
a team?”

It’s subtle, interesting, get’s right to the
point, and also let’s her know you have high
expectations.

Here’s another hint. Most women when they are
interested in a guy, will work like the devil to
pass their screens.

Don’t forget to reward her when she passes your
screens! This will make her feel good about
pleasing you and motivate her to do more of that
in the future!

Vincent DiCarlo is a world famous dating coach. His experience comes from years of training pickup artists in underground seduction lairs across the East Coast. He currently runs theApproach: The Science of Social Chemistry for the Modern Gentleman, with his partner Sebastian Drake, and teaches men of all ages and backgrounds to meet, attract and seduce the most beautiful women of the world.

Vincent’s full bio is here: Vincent DiCarlo: Social Dynamics

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***Question From A Reader:

Dear Joseph,

I am a student and I wanted to know how to meet girls in the
most crucial areas with plenty girls. Here are the situations First: The Nightclub where the music is so loud, where there are too many people with little or no space to move, and the girls are dancing with themselves,. The main idea is that it is very hard and almost pointless to start a conversation in these areas. How do I do it?

Second: How do I meet girls who are walking along the street
maybe going somewhere. Like am in school, how do I meet a girl who is walking down maybe to her dorm or somewhere else. The point is where am from people do this to women all the time. But here in America, its almost considered weird b’cos you pop out of nowhere and shes not expecting it.

Finally, what do you do when a girl tells you she has a
boyfriend? should you leave her alon or continue your business on
getting her. What if she is totally in love with her boyfriend, how do you win her over?

–Xion

***My Response:

Okay, I guess I’ll try tackling each question in order…

First, Nightclubs ARE very difficult venues. Unless you’re
specially suited to the party-style nightlife, these venues will be a bit daunting. And even if you are predisposed to this type of pick up, you will still have to deal with lots of competition from other men.

That said, it’s not impossible to meet women in nightclubs. But it will require you to be a little more outgoing and aggressive than other venues.

First off, when I’m in a club, I tend to like to hang out in
open-air areas where I can talk to other people easier. Patios and right outside the club can be good for this. Most clubs will have some form of outdoor area where you can hang out — especially places like New York and Los Angeles where you’re not allowed to smoke inside.

The dance floor can also be quite effective. If you like to dance, go out there and try dancing with the women who are dancing by themselves. If they’re not into it, move on. If they are, it’s PLAY time! =)

Also, keep in mind the time at which you’re going to the club.
Usually, the later it gets, the easier it is to pick up a girl
(this is because as it gets later, people are more pre-disposed to “hook up” due to alcohal, desperation, boredom, etc.).

Second, to approach women on the street takes a bit of finesse. In America, people do tend to be a bit more private than in other
parts of the world. My best advice in this respect is to actually
follow the girl for a bit and see where she’s going. If she stops
off at a coffee shop or a bus stop, or whatever, THAT is the time
to approach her! If it looks like she’s going someplace you can’t
follow her into (like her home/dorm, for instance) then you’ll have to take the chance and try approaching her cold. But make it a quick approach and include a time constraint (”I know you’re on
your way somewhere, this’ll only take a second…”), get her number as quick as you can, then move on.

Finally, when it comes to the “boyfriend” thing, that’s a matter of personal taste. Some guys don’t want to mess with that, others
don’t care. The thing is, most women aren’t THAT committed to their boyfriends, so it’s not as big of an obstacle as you might think.

The important thing to do in this situation is to try and “read”
the woman. Sometimes, a girl will tell you she has a boyfriend when she really doesn’t because she wants to politely reject you (and sometimes she really does have a boyfriend and wants to stay
faithful to him). If this is the case, you have to look at the
signals she’s giving you to see if she’s actually into you or not.

If a woman does like you and IS, in fact, into you, she will usually with-hold the fact that she has a boyfriend. And if she does bring it up, she wants you to take the lead and “sweep her off her feet” so she won’t have to feel guilty about cheating on him. So when that’s the case, it’s time to pump up the agressiveness on your pick up.

Wishing you success!

Joseph Matthews

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